Perfectionism to Excellence: Be the best needed.
Understand, Implement, Succeed. A Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) based approach for turning perfectionism to excellence
-- More than 55 lessons spread over 7 modules covering
* Understand perfectionism, the roots, the reason the vicious cycle which keeps us trapped
* Map out your perfectionism cycle, understand what is needed to change.
* Dismiss perfectionism thinking
* Practical techniques to overcome perfectionsim
* How to sustain the gains and prevent relapse
* How to tolerate the discomfort of being excellent
-- Video lessons for each step
-- Downloadable worksheets to practice the lessons
-- Designed for busy professional 30 minutes for 30 days
Introduction
FREE PREVIEWBefore you begin
Outline and timeline for the course
How to use this course
Download the worksheets
What is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy eBook (Download)
Definition of Perfectionism
FREE PREVIEWThe good, the bad, the ugly of Perfectionism
Worksheet - 03 - The good and bad of your perfectionism (Download)
Are you a perfectionist? - Assessment
FREE PREVIEWWorksheet - 04 - Are you a perfectionist - assessment (Download)
How did you become a perfectionist?
Your unhelpful rules and assumptions about perfectionism
Worksheet - 06 - Your unhelpful rules for perfectionism (Download)
Your unrelenting high standards of perfectionism
Worksheet - 07 - Your unrelenting high standards of perfectionism (Download)
How unrelenting high standards keep perfectionism going?
Biased information processing in perfectionism
Self criticism and unhelpful thinking patterns in perfectionism
Perfectionism Behaviours, rewards and reinforcements
Worksheet - 11 - what is perpetuating your perfectionism (Download)
Perfectionism Cycle
Worksheet - 12 - Your perfectionism cycle (Download)
Decision to change perfectionism
Worksheet - 13 - Change process balance sheet (Download)
What does changing perfectionism involve?
Worksheet - 14 - Setting goals for change (Download)
Some coping tips before you start to change your perfectionism
Introduction to changing perfectionist behaviours
Worksheet - 16 - Your perfectionism behaviours (Download)
Working towards your goals - building a stepladder
Working towards your goals - behavioural experiments
Worksheet - 18 - Behavioural Experiments (Download)
Working towards your goals - learning to relax
Worksheet - 19 - Roll the dice (Download)
Automatic thoughts
Worksheet - 20 - Automatic Thoughts and Feelings (Download)
ABC Model of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy
Worksheet - 21 - ABC Model (Download)
Thought diaries for disputing perfectionism thinking.
Worksheet - 22 - ABC Model Thought Diary (Download)
Changing unhelpful rules of perfectionism - Part 1
Changinging unhelpful rules of perfectionism - Part 2
Worksheet - 23 - Adjusting unhelpful rules and assumptions (Download)
How self-worth relates to perfectionism?
Worksheet - 24 - My self worth Pie Chart (Download)
Uninstalling the perfectionism mindset
Worksheet - 25 - Uninstalling the perfectionist mindset (Download)
Putting it all together
The final action plan
Worksheet: Perfectionism Action Plan (Download)
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Being a perfectionist can lead to emotional problems like anxiety.
If we can't complete the tasks we start, if we can't accomplish our goals it can make us feel tense, stressed, worried or resentful. The obvious effect of perfectionism is in missed opportunities and social isolation BUT It can also lead to unhealthy and uncomfortable relationships. People close to us think we are self centered and rude
Perfectionist are likely to suffer from insomnia, chronic tiredness and stress and also have higher incidence of depression.
Overcoming perfectionism is a skill which can be easily learned online
Dr. Tarique Sani helps senior IT executives overcome anxiety, overwhelm and procrastination, unleashing their potential using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy . He is certified from Beck Institute, Philadelphia and Albert Ellis Institute, New York, USA. He has been practicing CBT since the past 7 years and has clients spread across 17 countries.
He is formally educated to be a medical doctor, practiced as a Pediatrician and Forensic expert for 10 years before starting his software company SANIsoft. He successfully nurtured SANIsoft as the CTO for 20+ years. Currently, apart from doing one to one coaching, he is also the senior faculty for CBT at Achology - The academy of modern applied psychology.
When not practicing CBT he can be found running and doing long distance cycling with his friends in the city of Nagpur in central India. He is passionate about sustainable living, teaching people to grow their own food in their gardens.
You can follow him on LinkedIn